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We have our anti-scam program, that helps us to sift away
most scammer that pest dating sites. It is a problem of Russian
dating that several active criminal groups, acting under
different names and pictures discredit all Russian brides
and dating. Of course, it is impossible to be 100 percent sure
that we do not have them, but our system (subscription) helps us
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If your sweetest dream is to marry a mature Russian lady,
than our site is the right place for you to start with!
The
thing that makes our site different from other Internet marriage
agencies dealing with "Mature Russian Ladies" is that
we provide real dating services. We do not sell emails or any
information about our clients. Here you can use one of the
safest ways of dating a Russian lady in the
Internet.
The site has many useful features to help you find
your Russian lady, and it has multi-level anti-scam program.
How to do it
1. Register to the site, try to put several good photos of
you (not made by your mobile) Read an article about photos for
Russian dating sties here.
2. Be active - show yourself as a confident and energetic man
as you certainly are. Write letters. The best number is 40-50.
It will allow you to see who you are comfortable with, who will
be interested in you. Read about your first letter to Russian
ladies here.
3. Communicate with several Russian ladies you like. See if
they answer your question, if you are comfortable with them. You
won't know what to say with some of them, but you will instantly
find some topics with others. Read about compatibility here.
4. Do not make the communication by letter long. Russian
ladies mostly do not like it. They are affair that it will come
to nothing and an Internet love will never become a real one,
but they are seriously minded and want to have a husband, not a
pen pal. Ask for a telephone number and phone her.
5. If she has children ask her about them, ask her about her
pets, about family values. Tell her about your children. Ask
important points about family relationship, about children
upbringing
6. If you really like her after telephone calls and letters,
if you wait for the time to phone - do not waste time, do not
make the time destroy something that began to grow between you -
Come to Russia and meet her personally. Live in the hotel , not
in her place, let love flourish. If you feel that you both want
it, you can move to her place from hotel with time.
7. Try to arrange the next meeting as soon as possible or make
arrangements to marry her.
The most common mistakes men do when they search for a lady in Russia:
1. Judge women by photos. Glamorous photos, photos as if they
are from women's magazine attract their attention. It is
interesting but 80 percent of letters are received by 20 percent
of ladies. But they are not more beautiful, they are not more
interesting than others. They have just better pictures than
others.
Men do not pay attention to psychological test result, to
compatibility. But they will live with a woman, not with
pictures. They will be unhappy if they have beautiful wife that
is always makes rows or constantly nagging and does not want to
sleep with them.
Quite recently I talked to a man from Spain, he was complaining
that he had got acquainted by Internet with several Russian
ladies, they were completely breathtaking in their pictures, but
when he came to meet them they were just average, not super ordinary
not like those models on the podiums.
He was walking along the streets of St-Petersburg and saw many
beautiful Russian ladies walking along the street, they
were not in hurry, talked with their friends, laughed a lot. Why
then did he meet Russian ladies who were beautiful in the
pictures, but were tired, dull, not funny? Yes, it can happen
also. If a girl exhausts herself with work (she has, for
example, to care alone for her child or she needs to rent an apartment
and it is very expensive in Russia ) she looks not her best, and
you can't imagine how she changes after rest or after she does
not need to work so hard. By accident, all the Russian ladies that he met were hard working ones and he saw them after full
working day (in one case after a night shift). And he saw in the
street Russian women who had holidays or were students
and so had vacations or even does not work at all as they had
boyfriends who cared for them. That's where from such a
difference!
2. The second mistake the men who are looking for a
Russian
lady do is the result of this also. Many men look for
models in appearance, they want to be an envy of all their
friends. But they want to live with normal girls - warm,
kind-hearted, faithful.
But most girls who look like models do not want real
relationship, they want just men's admiration, they want to be
the centre of attention. But they do not need closeness,
intimacy, warmth.
The second reason is that even if there is such a paragon who
combines model appearance with warmth and comfort. They are very
rare. We have a joke about it:
Two men are sitting near a fireplace. One man says looking in
the fire. I was never married in my life. - Why? - I was always
searching for a perfect woman for me. - And? Did not you find
her? - No, I found her. But I was not a perfect man for her.
It is a sad joke but I have met some men who were acting like
this and I saw them on different sites for more than 10 years.
 3. The next mistake is a choice! Men just can't stop (some
women are into this also). The best is an enemy of good enough.
They find someone, meet, everything is all right but they
continue to look and look for new ladies. They are poisoned by an
idea that maybe somewhere there is a person with whom it is
better, who is more interesting.
4. Men register to the site, but they do not want to place
any photo there or they place a photo where it is impossible to
see them or they put terrible photos. Some men are under
illusion that pictures do not mean anything for women. It is men
who choose by pictures, but ladies prefer them to write clever
words, write about their profession, their hobbies. Yes, it is
good when you write a lot about you, but for ladies a lot is
determined by your pictures. They do not want men to look like
models (in fact, men-models will most likely frighten them away,
but they want to see your smile, to see your eyes, to feel
calmness and reliability that comes from you, for some it is
important to see you in your home. And only then they will read
about your hobbies, about your interests and what you like. They
are often easy victims of scammers - scammers do not pay
attention to pictures and ready to answer or write to them
themselves without asking for new pictures.
 5. About 50 percent of men who register on the site prefer to
sign on and then wait for Russian mature ladies to write to
them. Guess who has more letters, more choice and more chances
to find their love, these 50 percent who are just sitting and
waiting for their dream girl to write to them or men who are
active themselves, who search themselves and who answer also
women who write to them? Yes, the second group of men has much
higher chances, especially if to take into account that many
women do not want to be the initiators of the communication,
they have traditional views on this and regard men as an active
side.
 6. But the strategy that surprises me most is the attitude of
some men who need 10 times (or something like that) of
confirmation that this particular lady wants to communicate
with them. They send women a wink, receive a letter or a wink in
return, then send her a postcard, receive something, then wink,
wink, wink, after 6 such "signs of attention" most
women begin to get tired from this and stop answering. Then they
continue to send these signs to the women of his choice. But
most Russian ladies are already not interested in them.
 7. The last common mistake is that men want to find many
ladies to visit in Russian and only then come, but in reality women who
were interested in them loose interest after some time and
search for somebody else, men continue their search in the
attempt to find more ladies, but again, some ladies do not want
to wait for him unknown amount of time and after some time when
he does not answer when he can come they stop being interested
in him. It is an endless process for them.
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